Welcome to Thoughtful Thursday!
I have a treat for you today!
We have been blessed to be part of Mercy River's blog tour!
For those of you who may not be familiar with Mercy River, well you are in for a treat!
Mercy River is a contemporary Inspirational Christian music artist group.
Their facebook page says "We are just 3 moms who love to sing"
You will see here today and on their website & blog that they really are 3 amazing moms, who are incredibly talented and love to sing.
These wonderful gals recently released their new album
"Higher".
I have personally enjoyed this cd and can tell you their music is amazing!
They also have offered to one very special reader a signed cd of "Higher".
Details on the giveaway contest at the end of this post.
(this is where you say "YES!" in a super excited "I wanna win it" kind of way.)
Now for the really good stuff...
I asked these ladies a question to share with you today:
How do you manage being wives, and mothers and meet the demands of family life while still pursuing their dreams/career?
Brooke, Soni, & Whitney from Mercy River created an awesome post giving great tips on this topic. When I say AWESOME, I mean it! I LOVED these tips. Thank you Mercy River!
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We’re often asked how we balance music and family. There are points in our lives when we DON’T have a lot of Mercy River duties. We keep our summers fairly open for time to run through the sprinklers, construct lemonade stands, and go camping, but during busy seasons? Heaven help us. We HAVE to find some way to balance everything or we go crazy. We’d love to share some of our tips with you! So, without further ado, we give you…
15 LIFE BALANCING TIPS FROM
MERCY RIVER
(Brooke’s Tips)
1) Let The Kids Help Themselves: I have space in my fridge AND in my pantry that’s completely dedicated to my kids’ snacks. In the fridge I have yogurt, string cheese, and fruit. The pantry has granola bars, graham crackers, marshmallows, and raisins. The kids know it’s there and it’s within their reach. So anytime I get asked for a snack, the answer is, “You know where to find it.”2) Use the Village: I have a babysitting group with two of my friends. Every Monday, our kids go to a different house from 9:00-12:00. They’re all the same age, so to them it’s just a playdate. For me? It’s heaven. Two out of every 3 weeks I get 3 hours to myself to run errands, clean my house, even take a nap. We’ve also done this on Friday nights for dates. It’s just…AWESOME.
3) Embrace The Morning: I’ve learned to really love early mornings. I’m usually up anywhere between 5:00-6:00. I go to the gym, do my grocery shopping, get my scripture study in…all before the kids are awake. It makes my day so much smoother.
(Whitney’s Tips)
4) Make Dinner Before Lunch: On super hectic days, this helps me a TON! As soon as breakfast is over I make dinner , whether it’s a crockpot meal, a casserole, a soup, whatever--and I stick it in the fridge to be reheated in the evening. This was truly a revolutionary discovery for me.5) Think of Time as Tithing: We tithe 10% of our money to the Lord...should our time be any different? My days--busy or not--always run smoother when I make time for the Lord. He helps me run much more efficiently and productively. Give Him some of your time each day--and He will make the rest of your day better.
6) Over-the-Door Shoe Organizers: I have 5 of these hanging on the inside of doors in my home, and only 2 of them are actually FOR shoes. One is dedicated to seasonal "stuff." In the winter, each member of the family has their own "row" for hats, gloves, scarves, and mittens. No more searching for mates! In the summer, we replace winter gear with sunscreen, swim diapers, bug spray, sunglasses, water goggles, etc. I've used these "pockets" in so many ways: church ties, hair bows, small toys, emergency supplies, the list goes on. (Oh, and in my kids' rooms--where I DO use them for shoes--I "decorate" each pocket by slipping in old birthday cards they've gotten over the years. Having those on "display" brightens up their closet with memories and color.)
7) Listen to Audio Books: This doesn’t exactly save time, but it DOES help me include something I love that I usually do not have time for. I love to read, but when things are busy, I just can’t. Listening to audio books while I clean the kitchen kills two birds with one stone: it makes me WANT to clean my kitchen--and it gives my weary brain a much-needed escape.
(Soni’s Tips)
8) Crockpot Breakfast: I like to send my kids off to school with a breakfast that will fill them up better than cold cereal, but 4 girls out the door before 8:30? Insanity. When I know we’ll have a particularly crazy morning, I like to stick steel cut oats, water, with almonds, cinnamon, brown sugar, raisins, etc. in the crockpot the night before. I just turn it to low, and the next morning a hot breakfast with no mess! (And my house smells amazing.)9) Make a Meal Plan: Every Sunday I make a plan for meals for the week. This not only helps me with grocery shopping, but it helps me avoid that 3:30 PM brain stump of “what do I make tonight?” I can also be on top of any meat that needs to be defrosted, vegetables that need to be prepped, etc.
10) Choose Velcro or Slip On: I go for shoes my kids can put on themselves. For some reason, not having to tie shoes up a billion times a day helps my sanity.
We hope these help you find some balance in YOUR life!
xo!
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Thank you so much ladies!
Now, a few treats for you!
First, here are two awesome videos to check out. One Is just adorable and prompted my question to them. The other, is their new Music video! Please check them out then you can enter the contest to win their cd "Higher"!
And Their New Music Video
"Beautiful Life"
You will love this. So creative. So beautiful and way fun!
Today's Giveaway will allow you a total of two entries.
YAY!
Each entry must be separate in the comment section below.
(example, comment, then leave one more separate comment telling us you tweeted it or linked it)
Entry #1 : Leave a comment below telling us one tip of how you balance family life.
Entry#2 : tweet this on Twitter making sure to tag @Mercy_River and @momentsbyJL
There is a Twitter button below each post here on the blog.
OR
You can link to this post on facebook or your blog if you do not have a Twitter account.
(Please let me know as well!)
Contest Ends Wednesday March 28th 2012, midnight
and winner will be announced Thursday March 29th.
PLEASE make sure you attach your email to your blogger profile or leave it in your comment so I can get a hold of you. If you do not then I might have to choose a new winner.
That would be sad right?
(Click here to learn how to do that)
Thanks for stopping by! Good Luck!
hugs,

EDIT :My sister has a awesome music blog UpliftingNotes.blogspot.com and posted today on a song from Mercy Rivers,Higher, "Better than a Hallelujah" and how that song has impacted her. click here for more inspiration!


Since I'm a blogger, and a photographer & I use the computer a lot, I've set rules for myself about when I can & cannot use the computer. It has made a big difference in the time I have available for other things!
ReplyDeleteLove this post, it was much needed. Once again Mercy River inspires me to be better:)
ReplyDeleteI'm still trying to figure out a balance in my life, but lately I've learned to just let some things go. I'm trying to teach myself that spending an extra 5 minutes with the kids is much more important than clearing the sink, or wiping off the table....its in progress, but i'm trying!
Alot of these ideas I already use, one being the shoe organizers. I know I need more than two in our house, but right now that is it. The different way I use it is that they are both hung on the wall in our garage. Everybody's shoes go there- makes it a much easier morning when all 5 kiddos are trying to find their shoes. :)
ReplyDeleteI also do the food menu- But I plan out a month at a time and then just shop on a weekly basis. If I do not make it a longer list my family gets bored of the same seven meals every week! I have to make it longer to get the variety in. :)
I agree with Tiffany's comment as well- I had a lightbulb moment a few weeks ago when the bedlam had reached hysterics trying to get out the door for school. The spirit was definitely not there and I looked at the clock and decided to move on. Being stressed would not help at the end of the day- it was the way I interacted with my kids that mattered. Being late for school is not the end of the world (same as the sink or table being perfect not being the end of the world). These children are my blessing from the Lord and I am going to be held responsible for how I spent the time I have had with them.
Thank you for a post (and comments!) that reminded me of that and helped me feel the Spirit this morning!!
Sorry- my email is marquettes98 at gmail dot com. :)
ReplyDelete16 years and 8 kids later, I am still trying to figure out the whole balance thing sometimes! I love the idea of making dinner before lunch. I know when I am on the ball and start dinner before the kids get home from school and chaos reigns supreme, it makes the whole evening run better. I also plan out my week's menu and make a shopping list which helps a lot! And I really need lists. I forget so many things if they are not written down! email ckmcniven@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteI have a calendar that I right down all the kids activities on so I know who has to be where and when. I try to use that time in the car to talk with that child about their day and what happened at school.
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These ladies should be called Super Moms
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Hi Guys, I just LOVE your music! It is the most played CD in our house on a Sunday morning when getting ready for church. My kids and husband are so used to waking up the Mercy River that it's noticed if I don't put it on!
ReplyDeleteThe tips are a great idea as I feel that women should support each other world wide in any way we can :-)
I would love the actual recipe for that breakfast in the slow cooker too!! Can you pls post it up?!
Thanks for the great inspirational music! It actually helps to bring the spirit into my life!
Love, love, love this post!! I had never heard Mercy River...and now I am a big fan! I can't wait to get one of their cds!! Thanks for sharing this with us!!
ReplyDeleteI just shared your link on my facebook page!! : ) My email is melissa.dobbs@bellsouth.net
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Balance in my life is something that I really need to work on better. One way I have found is to make time for myself each day. Just 10 minutes to myself to read, ponder, do a craft... it really makes a difference in my day and mood with my family.
ReplyDeleteI would love, love, love their album!
ReplyDeletehmmmm, finding balance....I'm still working on this myself.
I have to remind myself to not nag my kids so much in the little amount of time we seem to have together (I work outside the home), so just trying to take advantage of the moments we get together is important---letting them know I'm interested in how their day went, and that I love them.
Finding balance? I don't know that I'll ever truly find it... but, I'm beginning to realize balance can mean totally different things at different times in my life. Of course there are the non-negotiable/have-to-do-things (feed kids, laundry, love others) but most of the other stuff is just extra. I'm learning (with a new baby on the way) to let go of as much of the extra stuff that isn't important. The world may be screaming at me to get it all done or feel like a failure, but I refuse to listen. Besides, does it really matter if my kids get their clean clothes from their drawers or the pile on the end of my bed that has been sitting there for two days? ;)
ReplyDeleteShared the link too:)
ReplyDeleteThis was a great post. I love all their ideas about how to save time and still have time for themselves and family. One thing that helps me a lot is a weekly menu. It saves me time during the week and money at the store because I only buy what I need. Thanks for the fun giveaway!
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